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Yes I am hitting on the hot topic of recession again! Why you might ask, one of our goals here at the Buskard Group is to be your source for everything Real Estate related. It seems like you can't have a conversation about the economy or housing without some talk of recession. So I just wanted to share some data that we have found insightful. Enjoy and have a great holiday weekend!
now three things:
What is overthinking?
When what you think gets in the way of what you want.
Overthinking isn’t a personality trait. It’s the sneakiest, greediest form of fear.
It’s sneaky because overthinking masquerades as being prepared.
It’s greedy because overthinking gobbles up time, creativity and energy.
Overthinking steals books, businesses, diets and hope.
It’s the most expensive thing people and companies invest in without ever knowing.
Have you ever judged an idea as too dumb to even write down? That’s overthinking.
Have you ever told yourself a story about why someone didn’t text back? That’s overthinking.
Has it ever felt like you have a “pocket jury” with you, cross examining each new adventure until you dare not chase it? That’s overthinking.
Overthinking is like Novocain for your dream.
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As I talk with people and tell them what I do most follow up with "I could never talk to people all the time." or "I wouldn't know what to say." I'll let you in on a secret....it's all about observation. You can learn so much about someone from observing them, then take those basic observations and ask about them. Do they look tan, ask if they have been on a vacation recently. There is one thing everyone likes to talk about, themselves. :) For those that want to go a little deeper down the rabbit hole here is another great read from the Black Swan Group.
I borrowed this post from an article discussing Shawn Achor’s book “Happiness Advantage”. It is one of my all-time favorite books. Enjoy the article and leave a comment about your thoughts on the topic.
1) Success Brings Happiness? No. Happiness Brings Success.
We all chase success hoping it will make us happy:
1. I’ll be happy once I get that promotion.
2. I’ll be happy once I get that raise.
3. I’ll be happy once I lose 15 pounds.
But the research shows that isn’t true. You achieve a goal and you’re briefly happier… but then you’re looking toward the next big thing. What Shawn’s research showed was when you flip the formula and focus on increasing happiness, you end up increasing success.
You can increase your success rates for the rest of your life and your happiness levels will flatline, but if you raise your level of happiness and deepen optimism it turns out every single one of your success rates rises dramatically compared to what it would have been at negative, neutral, or stressed.
MET Life saw such great results among happy salespeople that they tried an experiment: they started hiring people . And that was even if those people performed poorly on the standard industry “aptitude test.” What was the result?
It turns out that the optimistic group outsold their more pessimistic counterparts by 19% in year one and 57% in year two.
How can this be? Shawn explained that
If we know the intelligence and technical skills of an employee, we can actually only predict about 25% of their job success. 75% of long term job success is predicted not by intelligence and technical skills, which is normally how we hire, educate and train, but it’s predicted by three other umbrella categories. It’s optimism (which is the belief that your behavior matters in the midst of challenge), your social connection (whether or not you have depth and breadth in your social relationships), and the way that you perceive stress.
And students who want success in their future should worry a little less about grades and more about optimism. Shawn found that rolling a pair of dice was as predictive of your future income as your college GPA is. And .
Have you ever met someone and wondered, how do they do ALL of that? How do they have a successful career, a fitness routine, a good marriage, a relationship with their teenagers, and still volunteer, serve on committee's, etc.? You shake your head as you wonder how you are going to get to the end of the week with your to-do list let alone adding one more thing to your already packed schedule.
I have struggled with how to fit "more" into my life. We all have 24 hours a day, right? Then why does it seem like some people have more?
Well, I can tell you that they don't, and they do. Let me explain. The people that I have observed and learn from are so protective of their time because they have made a deliberate effort as to what gets on their calendar and what doesn't. They take time to determine what is important to them and what their priorities are. They often have to choose between something "good" and something "better", and they always choose "better".
So many times in our lives we settle for good. And we should be thankful for every good thing in our lives. But what if God has something better to give us? Will be notice? Will we be proactive enough to let go of the good to get the better? High achieving people do this EVERY DAY!
They choose to get up in the morning and go to the gym. They choose to go to bed early instead of letting Netflix scroll into the next episode of their favorite show. They let go of a good activity in order to take on someone with more meaning or better impact.
Does it mean they never watch there favorite show, no. But the most successful people realize that in the end, it doesn't positively impact their lives or the lives of people around them. So they guard themselves against the pitfall of spending 3 hours watching tv when they planned to just catch 1 episode to unwind.
So, if you (and I) want more time to do the important stuff, we may have to let go of some things that in the grand scheme of things don't really add value to our lives. Less Facebook and more books? Less catching up on the latest drama and more time talking with your family about their goals and dreams? What is it that you want to make room for in your life and what do you need to limit?
I hope you will be deliberate with your time this week! Put the important stuff in first and say "No" to a few things. It will be empowering!!
"Academia takes something simple and makes it complicated, a communicator takes something complicated and makes it simple". John C Maxwell
I love John Maxwell. Such a good teacher. Leadership is complicated. Or is it?
As my team has grown I have been thrust into being a leader without really knowing what that meant or how to do it properly.
What I have learned through experience and through great leaders like John Maxwell is this: Communication is everything!!
How you communicate, when you communicate and how clear your message is makes all the difference.
I've learned to vet out my ideas ahead of time before presenting them to the team.
I've learned to give my team time to adjust and process new ideas
To share the idea and then get input. Let them poke holes, you need to know those are there and how to plug them. Let them add to the idea. What you saw in your head may be a small part of an incredible concept that can be more than you alone could have imagines.
Keep them posted on new developments that affect them. (And don't overwhelm them with details that don't or that muddies the waters of the clear vision that's been shared)
All this points back to communication.
Learn more from John C Maxwell's Developing the Leader Within You 2.0
Picture this, a perfect summer night and you are at the neighbors house for a cook out. Everyone is relaxing and having a good time and eventually you get to talking about your cable bill. Well Bill down the street has the same service now and he's saving like $40 a month because he is a "new" customer. I've always felt a little jaded personally that the new customer always get the better the deal. I've been paying for years and the only perk the send is a new remote...and I still pay to have it delivered... Sound familiar? Here is a great blog post from the Black Swan Group which was started by Chris Voss. Chris was the lead hostage negotiator for many years for the FBI. Read it over and let me know if it makes sense, even better if it worked for you! I know it's helped me before!